Lie Spotting Checklist. You don’t have to be a professional lie spotter to take advantage of The Lie Spotting Checklist. Let’s talk about some things to look for.
When I was a little kid I used to believe everything I read and heard about Body Language and lying. If someone said “That person is lying because they ABCD’d” I would put that in my toolkit and to me it was a fact. Lie spotting seamed simple and easy.
Enough Already. 5 Things About Body Language We’re Tired Of Hearing. I would rather stand in line for 3 days at a carpet store, than listen to or read one more thing about these five specific Body Language subjects.
I’d rather be beaten to death with a yard sprinkler than hear about the first three ever again. Do you feel the same way?
When someone tells me 73% of all communication is Body Language, they might as well be saying “President Lincoln signed the Declaration of Independence at Freaknik just 2 years before Louis and Clark discovered the Alamo.” It’s not true…
You think your best friend is lying. Now what? As you learn and pay attention to Body Language your mind automatically begins to search for deception. It’s the first thing people ask me about after a Keynote and it’s the main thing on most everyone’s mind when they find out what I do for a living.
I totally get it. It fascinates me too. I can’t get enough of it. Without going 120 feet deep into deception detection, let’s get right to it. Let’s talk about what to do when you think you’ve happened upon a lie a close friend is telling you.
Dummies Guide To Lie Spotting. When you’re in the Iie spotting business, every deception cue jumps up, slaps you in the face and says “Look at me!”. At the same time, every cue suggesting normality and all is well, jumps up, slaps you in the face and says “Look at me!”
Where do you start if you’re not going to make a career out nonverbal studies? What if you just want to know the basics to help you make the best decision you can in those few moments when it counts? Well, you’ve come to the right place. Because I’m gonna tell you and show you exactly what you want to know.
You’d think a “Body Language Expert”, “Behavior Analyst” or “Human Lie Detector” would be 100% honest every time they opened their mouth. Guess what? There’s one question you can ask to spot a Body Language Expert lying and be 100% accurate. As well, it will generate an array of Body Language cues not many people get to see them transmit.
Here’s what will happen as soon as you ask the question. There will be a slight but obvious pause. A smile will be triggered during the pause and it will grow. Sometimes into a full-blown Duchenne Smile. Sometimes just a simple semi-controlled smile. At that point they will answer…
4 Short Body Language Videos With Tips You Can Use Today. It’s tough finding time to educate yourself on things that can really up your game and get you to the next level.
So let’s get right to it. Here are 4 Short Body Language Videos With Tips You Can Use Today:
Awesome GIFs of Body Language. You can make someone laugh, cry, understand what you’re thinking, intending, or planning by just using your Body Language. However, it can be tough to do. Some are better at communicating nonverbally than others.
Actors, politicians, and comedians attempt to communicate as clearly as possible. Sometimes while hundreds of thousands or even millions of people are looking at them. And it is imperative their Body Language matches what they are saying, relaying, or intending. Amazingly enough, GIFs can help pass along their messages…
3 Things About Liars You May Not Know. Most people are under the impression there are specifics they can count on when sussing out liars. Oh but if that were true!
There are no true “absolutes” you can count on. However, there are cues you can score well with if you focus on the situation, what’s happening in real time, and when the cues are leaking.
Have You Friended A Psychopath On Facebook? Here Are 4 Clues To Look For: On June 30 of this year Susan Mayo, mother of 32 year old Nathan Sebastian was reported missing. Not long before that, Nathaniel shot his mother in the head, put her body in a barrel, then buried it under their front porch.
Were there clues his friends and family missed that could have let them know he would do something like this? Were there Body Language cues he transmitted that they missed as well? Could you have spotted them? I’ll bet you could have, if you had known what to look for.
Let’s take a look at what nonverbal cues and clues you would have seen if you had been hanging around with Nathan over the past year. And as you do that, think about your Facebook friends. Does anything here look or sound familiar?
Discover Your Inner Sherlock Holmes I had a blast talking with Brandon from Life’s Secret Sauce blog. We talked about everything from the secret to tapping into, as well as learning how to Discover Your Inner Sherlock Holmes to understanding who is lying to you and why.
The interview is fairly short but we cover a great many topics. We talked about how to practice what Sherlock Holmes skills you have learned about Body Language in restaurants and the common situations you find yourself in every day… continue
3 Truths About Lies. Over the years you’ve heard more about body language and nonverbal cues than you can possibly keep track of. And it can be tough to suss out what is actually valid and useable information from what is bogus or incomplete.
To help you untangle the good from the bad, I’ve laid out 3 popular myths you’ve most likely heard. I’ll break them down and show you why they aren’t valid. Altogether I’ve got close to 50 of these things. Here are the first 3 Truths About Lies… (Keep in mind, these are in no specific order.)
Are Manipulators and Regulators part of your conversation style? Do you ever feel your part of the conversation is being manipulated? Or regulated?
You may not realize it, but it happens to you quite often. As well, you’re most likely the manipulator and regulator of conversations more often than you may think…
How To Update Your Skill Set In Less Than 1 Hour. Have you ever felt like things have changed and nobody told you what that change was?
You didn’t see the change happen. And everything pretty much seems the same. But something’s just not right. And it’s coming from your side of the table.
When looking for Deception where do you start? Most people are under the impression that a person trained in nonverbal communication and body language can instantly see every deceptive cue on a person when they are looking for a liar.
I wish that were true. The closest thing to experiencing that would be asking a 5 year old that has a mouth full of Oreos, 20 minutes before dinner, if they know who took some cookies out of the cookie jar.
The Body Language of Chuck Norris meeting Benjamin Netanyahu shows the nonverbal cues of mutual admiration.
There are many body language cues that suggest someone truly likes you. I’ll show you a few of the easily spotted cues and some not so easily noticed…
